The Hard Truth is, Time will NOT Heal You
Time only heals flesh wounds.
If you want to heal your heart, you must take charge.
Procrastination and waiting to feel better is not getting you the outcome you want.
Dating is also not going to heal you. You will only attract creeps if you are miserable.
You girl, are your own night in shining armor.
YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN.
I can show you how step-by-step.
Healthy, Happy, and Whole within 6 months
My program and coaching in Thriving Through Divorce works, my past clients have experienced this transformation.
You can too.
IS
RIGHT FOR YOU?
If any of these describe you, then you are a great fit for the program
You are a high achieving woman at work, yet you can't seem to translate that success into your personal life.
You feel like you know all the "things" and you should be over it by now and living your best life. But you're not.
You are struggling with your emotions and your ex easily triggers you. It feels crazy-making, but you can't stop yourself from losing it.
You want a real LIFE PARTNER, but after this divorce you are afraid that you are too old, or broken to find love.
You know it can happen but just don't know how to make it happen for YOU and you feel frustrated with yourself.
You want more out of life but you don't know what steps to take in order to get the good life that you deserve.
ALL of these are FIXABLE!
It only sounds hard because you don't know how to do it yet
I GET IT.
I've been there
I was so scared to get a divorce. I knew I would lose my house, I worried about my children, I didn't know how I would provide for them. But after a few years of unhappiness and me numbing my feelings with wine and cigarettes every night after I put my kids to bed, I decided that the unknown was a better place than the empty unloved life I was living.
I took a leap of faith, I decided to trust myself. I have learned so much about myself since I embarked on that journey through divorce. I found my strength, I found my voice, and I found that I didn't need to numb my feelings anymore because I was free to be the person I really wanted to be!
I became a better person, I found my values and morals and how to live them with integrity. I became proud of who I am, confident even. Even though I fumbled along the way. I made mistakes, and learned the hard way a few times. But I can honestly say that doing this work is much easier than living a hard, uncomfortable, unloved life.
This program helps other women who are stepping into divorce to get control of their emotions, create powerful boundaries, live their values and speak their truth, and to be the creator of their amazing life.
These steps are the exact steps that got me from depressed in divorce to being my BEST SELF POSSIBLE. Now you don't have to learn the hard way.
Hi, I'm Julie Danielson
I can help you get over your divorce once and for all.
All you have to do is dare yourself to grow, reach out of your comfort zone this one time, and DECIDE to go after your goals and the life you want.
You get to become the BEST version of your SELF that you know you can be.
I know you have it in you, what is it going to take for you to finally see it?
Don't waste TIME, procrastination is not getting you what you want.
This next chapter of your life, is going to make all the previous chapters WORTH IT.
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WHAT DO YOU GET WHEN YOU JOIN
THE COLLECTIVE?
10 Online Lessons that teach you How to Get Over Divorce
This covers everything from getting control of your emotions, to building your independence, and learning how to be your BEST SELF. I created custom curriculum to take you from Victim to Creator of your amazing Life!
Private Facebook Group for Members
Join the Tribe Sisters, of all the women in the program connecting and stretching our comfort zones. Here we will further the conversation and support each other on our journey and share our huge A-ha moments!
Lesson 1
TRANSFORM AND MANAGE YOUR EMOTIONS.
Get ready to get control of how you react to any situation. You will become more aware of your emotions, what triggers you, and learn how to truly manage them.
Lesson 3
RECLAIM YOUR POWER
Reclaiming your power means no longer saying yes when you really don’t want to. You have the power to decide what you want, and to stand up for that. Saying no and having strong boundaries is a powerful and fulfilling experience.
Lesson 5
VISION YOUR FUTURE
Creating a dream life begins with a dream. If you don’t have it, you won’t get it. It all starts with dreaming up a vision of what you want your future to be. Fear stops people from doing this because they don’t want to be disappointed. But they fail in advance because they don’t try. Hope, optimism, dreams are what make your life worth living.
Live Weekly Group Coaching Calls on Zoom
During these Live Video calls we will go over a short relevant lesson that applies to everyone. I will check in with each member and see what each is struggling with for a laser coaching moment. Each session is recorded, just in case you miss!
Monthly Coaching with me
We will go deeper on each of these calls to make sure you are on track to reach your goals and get everything and more, out of this program.
Lesson 2
HEAL AND GROW FROM THE LESSONS OF YOUR PAST
Healing the wounds of your past is essential to making sure you do not repeat those patterns going forward. Without healing, humans tend to repeat the same relationship mistakes.
Lesson 4
INCREASE YOUR WORTH
We were born with it, yet as life happens it chips away at our own feelings of worthiness. You are innately worthy, it is time you feel it in your bones and deeply believe you matter.
Lesson 6
EMPOWERED ACTION
Taking steps towards your goals and dreams is getting out of your comfort zone. It can be scary, but nothing amazing happens in your life by staying inside your comfort zone. You will gain confidence in taking actions and even learn empowered dating techniques that will give you confidence to date high quality men and even dump like a ninja when needed. You will do all this while staying aligned with your wants, needs and desires.
To be considered for this program, just schedule a Divorce Breakthrough Session with me where we will find out if we are a fit to work together. click below to find a spot on my calendar and fill out a short form so I can best be prepared for our call.
CONNECTING TO HIGHER POWERS
It is time to feed your soul and get connected spiritually to whatever it is that serves your souls purpose. Tap your intuition and grow your purpose in life.
THE COLLECTIVE IS THE ANSWER TO GETTING THE LIFE YOU LOVE
DON'T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT
Here is what these boss babes had to say
Crystal
"To say that this program changed my life would be an understatement. When I look back at myself last year compared to today, I am 100% more confident. I can keep my emotions in check. I absolutely know I am meant to have the best life for me!"
Jewels
"It helped me get to a place I thought I could never get to. So much more alive so much more full of energy, and so much more aware of everything that I am a better person to be around."
Chris
"I truly feel healthy and whole emotionally. And I feel like there is nothing I can't accomplish if I decide I want it. If I had to do it all over again, I would 100% do it again."
If I can do it, you can too.
You can have the life you love waking up to.
That's Me and my
Hot New Hubbs in 2010!
I know you can transform and still have the life of your dreams, this is possible because I did it. After my divorce I was determined to become the best version of myself. I also believed in love and wanted another chance at it.
This year I celebrated my 13 year wedding anniversary with this amazing man. Not only does he do dishes, but he makes me feel loved, appreciated and adored everyday. We have a deeply connected relationship.
Love does not take WORK sister. I cringe when I hear those words now... It just takes a daily practice of kindness and respect. IT IS EASY.
If you want AMAZING connected LOVE, this program will help you get date ready and confident so that you can step into dating powerfully and trust yourself to make good decisions for you.
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When I book a call for a Divorce Breakthrough Session, is there a cost?"The breakthrough session is FREE, but it is part of your application process. If you book this call it is based on the premise you are ready to move forward with joining this program by making an investment in yourself to Thrive post divorce. This session is to determine if I feel I can help you, if so I will invite you to join!
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When do I start?You can start right away, from the moment you join you will receive a welcome email with all the information to dive in and get started. Your first group call will be this coming Monday. You first step is booking your Divorce Breakthrough Session HERE.
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How is the program delivered?There are several ways we interact over the next 6 months that we will be working together. 1. Online group calls over Zoom each week on Monday at 5 Pacific and 8 Eastern. 2. Private one on one calls with me so we can go deep on your specific needs (you get to pick the times on my calendar for these.) 3. Private Facebook group where we interact and the group calls are recorded and held for re-watching. 4. Lessons in a members only area that you will have a password and login for to enter. These lessons are dripped each week for 8 weeks and will provide the tools you need to transform your life!
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What is the cost?This is a life changing experience for you that will change the trajectory of your life. The investment is a one time fee. This will be discussed during your breakthrough session. We do not reveal the price until we have determined if this program is a fit for you to help you reach your healing goals. It is an investment in yourself to make sure you get over your ex, and create self-trust and the self-love that will keep you from settling for the wrong guy again. It is PRICELESS. If it is not a fit we will make other recommendations and you can continue to enjoy all the free content Julie provides in the the Facebook group, podcast and more.
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How much time does it take each week?Our weekly group calls take about 1 hour. Then you get to do the lessons in the program on your own time. Those lessons take about 45 minutes to watch plus there is some guided journaling homework. Your commitment to this process is critical. Information is not going to cause transformation, it is your commitment to do this work that will. Falling behind with the program and homework is normal, some take more than 1 week for you to process in your mind, but that happens in the shower, in the car, shopping. Doing you regular daily activities where you go about your life and apply the tools you learn here. Practice is how you really learn to get control of your emotions and truly heal. Some ladies say "I don't have time for this." The reality is, the way they live their chaotic life is one of the things they need to work on in coaching. We all have the same 24 hours in a day, but if we are spending many of those hours in a destructive way, numbing ourselves to feel better, than that is an area we could work on.
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Why would I do life coaching if I can get counseling for free?I love a good counselor and I believe we all need one at some point in our lives. The truth is in the training, counselors use methods to peel back the layers of your past and get really clear on why you are the way you are. They will ask you ALL about the past. Their goal is to get you to where you are living productively. With coaching, we are FUTURE focused and we teach you tools and skills to overcome the past while creating a powerful and amazing future. Not only do we help your process the past but we work on actively letting go of the guilt, blame, and shame emotions that are holding you back from really experiencing more joy. The coach is going to take you from living to THRIVING. Coaching will powerfully move you to take massive action on your goals so you are creating and amazing life you love.
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How do I know this will work for me?On the divorce breakthrough call, I will evaluate all of the answers to the questions I ask you. I am looking for women who rather talk about their future and the things they want going forward. Rather than the ladies that want to blame their ex and get me on board with that or worse... help them get back with him. (not a fit for this program) If you are really committed to having a life you will love, then you will do all the work in this program, and you will get there. Many women before you have done it and it is a proven step-by-step program. You don't have to try to "figure it out" for yourself. This program is the fast track to your healing. This is like going to a gym and having a personal trainer, they are going to guide you, but you do the work. Same here, only I am a personal trainer for your MIND, and you still do the heavy lifting.
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What if it doesn't work for me?If you do all the work, attend all the calls including your one on ones with me and you show up in complete commitment every week, it will work if you do the work. If you are looking for some kind of guarentee that it works than you are actually looking for a fall back plan for your own lack of commitment. I've seen this before and I rather only take on clients that are fully committed.
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Wouldn't it be faster for me to just get a new boyfriend?NO. And yes. But I'll explain that in a moment. Like attracts like. If you are in the pit of misery you are going to attract a man that likes that. He will want to rescue you, likely a narcissist or some kind of predator, or he is incredibly hurt and broken himself. It is my goal in this program to get you 100% whole, where you don't NEED a man. That is a great place to date from because you are confident and healthy, that version of you will magnatize amazing men to you if that is what you want. So dating when you are whole has a lot of benefits, you attract whole and healthy men, you get to be very selective, you will be confident to turn someone away that displays red flags. So it is not that I don't want you to date, on the contrary, I hope to get your date ready and to the point where you don't feel like you need a man. Then you date from a place of power and create the relationship of your dreams that you will learn to do in my program.
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Do you only work with ladies who chose to get the divorce?I only work with ladies who are committed the moving on. To advertise or mention "Ladies who left" they are for sure the kind of person I feel like I can help powerfully because they are ready to make massive changes. For some women who did not choose divorce, they too are ready and committed to get past their past and move forward to create an amazing life. I work with all women that are committed, resourceful and are ready to dive in and do the work on themselves that will make them happier and more fulfilled in life.
What my Clients Say
I was struggling with obsessing about my ex and wanting to know everything that was going on with him. I was feeling anxious that I was running out of time to meet someone, that I was too old to start all over again. I was feeling extreme sadness over the loss of the life I had hoped for.The biggest thing I have learned is the S.T.E.E.R method of changing your thoughts to change how you feel about a situation. That for me has been huge!
I am using this method in not only my divorce journey but all aspects in my life. I understand that I CAN change how I feel about something and therefore can change how I react to any given situation. It is empowering. You have made an impact on my life that I will never forget.
~Becky
How do you say thank you to someone who has given you your life back? Not only did Julie help me save myself she also saved my new marriage. My recovery led to discovering deep inner healing tools to recover from significant abuse I experienced from my X husband. Throughout my journey I have realized how little I knew that my reactions to my ex husbands behaviors where truly toxic not only to myself but my family. I couldn’t make this progress on my own, I truly believe after 16 years of repeating the same behaviors in reaction to my Ex Husband’s Narcassicic methods that the only way I started to heal was with Julie’s empowerment coaching.
I’m a new person. I’m free.
~Anna G.
There are not enough words to express my gratitude. For the first time since I was a kid I actually like myself. There are still times where I question myself but I see things differently, I think differently. There were days of self doubt and ridicule, now they are fleeting moments filled with aha opportunities to move forward. I now take action regardless of fear, doubt or worry. I personally owe these thoughts to you. You are a gift.
~Barb B.
