Make Your Divorce
The BEST Thing
That Ever Happened
To You
You feel like there is something better for you out there. . . and you are right.
If you DO the work in this program I KNOW you will be excited about life after Divorce!
NEED SOME SUPPORT AND GUIDANCE?
YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Divorce feels like rock bottom. But the truth is, it is your LAUNCHING PAD to your BETTER LIFE.
You deserve to have the rest of your life to be... THE BEST OF YOUR LIFE.
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WHO IS THIS FOR?
Women I work with are smart, successful, high valued women. They appear to have it all... except they still struggle with getting past their Divorce. They are not yet Happy, Healthy and Whole on the inside.
They have a great job, great support system, they have good health, BUT.... they struggle with overcoming guilt, shame and blame of their past. It prevents them from having the unshakable confidence they crave.
They know they want love in their life but they are afraid they may make the wrong decision and of repeating mistakes of their past.
These women want to feel freedom from their past so they can powerfully be in charge of their future.
These ladies are ready to make in investment in themselves to have the exact mentoring that is going to get them to their best life yet!
It's not for everyone. It is not for you if...
If you struggle with finances and getting your basic needs met, THAT needs to be your priority.
Anyone just seeking a quick fix without the work.
If you are committed to assessing blame on your ex and unwilling to take responsibility for your life.
It is not for you if you are only seeking validation and a place to vent.
WHAT IF YOU COULD MAKE THIS DIVORCE THE BEST THING
THAT EVER HAPPENED TO YOU?
Life would be something to look forward to everyday!
Right about now I'm guessing that...
You cry your eyes out on a daily basis and find it really hard to function. People find it difficult to be around you because your divorce is all you talk about.
You don't know how to control this and you are done succumbing to feelings of anger and victimhood.
You know that there is more to life than this, you once had goals and dreams. You want more for yourself and to feel accomplished and worthy, you just don't know how to go about getting there.
You want a real LIFE PARTNER, but after this divorce you are afraid that you are too old to start over.
Either all the good men are taken or there never was any good men to begin with.
You want more out of life but you feel stuck. You don't know what steps to take in order to get the good life that you deserve. You know it can happen but just don't know how to make it happen for you.
Get the life you deserve
What will you do with this one wild life?
Sit on the sidelines while others have fun?
Let a failed relationship mean you are a failure?
HELL NO.
This is your chance to Make your BEST life yet.
You deserve your best life!
You could be...
Create Your Best Post-Divorce Life With The Support & Guidance Of Your Divorce Mentor...
Julie Danielson
I know you are a good candidate for this program
simply because you are here. What brought you here?
Maybe you want a better life for yourself and your kids.
Maybe you feel like you could be and do more with this life,
you just don't know how to get there.
Maybe you want love again but don't want to make the same
mistakes again.
You are in the right place!
DON'T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT
How do you say thank you to someone who has given you your life back? Not only did Julie help me save myself she also saved my new marriage. My recovery led to discovering deep inner healing tools to recover from significant abuse I experienced from my X husband. Throughout my journey I have realized how little I knew that my reactions to my ex husbands behaviors where truly toxic not only to myself but my family. I couldn’t make this progress on my own, I truly believe after 16 years of repeating the same behaviors in reaction to my Ex Husband’s Narcassicic methods that the only way I started to heal was with Julie’s empowerment coaching.
I’m a new person. I’m free.
~Anna G.
I was struggling with obsessing about my ex and wanting to know everything that was going on with him. I was feeling anxious that I was running out of time to meet someone, that I was too old to start all over again. I was feeling extreme sadness over the loss of the life I had hoped for.The biggest thing I have learned is the S.T.E.E.R method of changing your thoughts to change how you feel about a situation. That for me has been huge!
I am using this method in not only my divorce journey but all aspects in my life. I understand that I CAN change how I feel about something and therefore can change how I react to any given situation. It is empowering. You have made an impact on my life that I will never forget.
~Becky
I wanted to tell you (Julie) that you are a breath of fresh air, when I needed to breath. My storms seem lesser today. Thank you for giving me a shot when you really didn’t have too. I'm getting a richer life. I asked God for help and BAM! You popped in. I've made new friends through Thrive, my decision making is much better. My negative voice is disappearing. I am levitating toward better relationships. I'm practicing not to jump in when its not my problem.
Julie is positive, and has shown me, I dont have to be so reactive and let crazy thoughts occupy my (what is now) liberated brain.
~Carrie
Because of Julie's guidance and comforting support, I was able to make it through the stages of grief brought on by the end of a marriage. Regained my voice and confidence. Survived and even found my true, better self!
~Crystal J.
There are not enough words to express my gratitude. For the first time since I was a kid I actually like myself. There are still times where I question myself but I see things differently, I think differently. There were days of self doubt and ridicule, now they are fleeting moments filled with aha opportunities to move forward. I now take action regardless of fear, doubt or worry. I personally owe these thoughts to you. You are a gift.
~Barb B.
You can get through it and get by, or you can have a better life than ever before. I know this is possible because I did it. After my divorce I was determined to become the best version of me possible. I also knew I believed in love and wanted another chance at it. This year I celebrated my 5 year wedding anniversary with the man of my dreams. Even 6 years later I can honestly say I am still as in love with him as the day I said “I do.”
I struggled through the emotional aspects of my divorce, I had to find my way. In this program I share my story and show you how I made my life better. Step by step I show you what you need to do in order to be thriving. Not only do I lay it all out for you, but I am here to help you through each step. You will get to share your story and feel supported in our community of women.
Do you want to feel better? Do you want a better life for yourself? Do you have goals and aspirations? We are here to support you and help you become your best self.
Imagine a life where you feel like you have complete control!
Divorce is hard...
is the understatement of the year.
I'm Julie Danielson,
I created "Thriving Through Divorce" because I felt like my divorce was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I went through counseling and read over two hundred books in order to learn how I can best manage my emotions, grow as a better person, and be the best mom I can be.
I'm a certified coach and my journey has made me want to share what I have learned and give other women a community to connect with one another, get supported and share their experiences.
I want to help them transform their lives the way I did and see that this divorce is not their rock bottom. It is a launching pad.
"Divorce is not rock bottom,
it is your launching pad."
LEARN FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN THERE
I want to thank you again for helping me during my most trying times. Divorce is so hard and I am so grateful I could call you when I felt like I was losing my mind. I am so glad you helped me with boundaries, consequences, and not caring what he thought. I feel so strong now and the boundaries and how I perceived things actually totally helped me learn how to deal with him. I had no idea how to deal with that before you gave me those tools. I was overwhelmed until you explained it and gave me alternatives.
I will forever be grateful to you for that.
~Jess D.
I'm so glad I made the decision to join this group! I had done some counseling throughout my separation and thought I was good, that I didn't really need something like this. I soon discovered that there were things that I either hadn't really worked thru or hadn't even thought about. Julie made me think about different aspects of my issues and encouraged me to figure out what I could do to make things better. Learning what I will and will not tolerate and how to handle it properly has made a big difference in how I interact with not just my STBX, but other people as well. Thank you so much Julie!
~Kathy
MISTAKE
#5
JUMPING IN TO A NEW RELATIONSHIP
Jumping from one relationship to the next does not give you time to grieve or to process the relationship. You will not learn all you are meant to learn from your other relationship and risk bringing all those mistakes with you into the next relationship. That being said.... it happens. Heck I did it. So I can totally relate.
But know that like will attract like. If you are not your absolute best self, you are attracting someone at the same level. You are here to up your game and get the kind of love that blows your socks off! You deserve it and can have it. I know... because now I have that!
MISTAKE
FEELING SHAME
#1
Feeling shame because of the divorce does not serve you. Know that divorce is super common, and rather than feeling shame we should celebrate that fact that we can have a divorce and free ourselves to have a more rewarding life.
You get one life, what you do with it is up to you. Staying small because you feel shame or embarrassment is not serving you or your higher purpose in life. I will show you how to let go of those self-sabotaging thoughts!
10 most common mistakes women make when getting a divorce
MISTAKE
#1
FEELING SHAME
Feeling shame because of the divorce does not serve you. Know that divorce is super common, and rather than feeling shame we should celebrate that fact that we can have a divorce and free ourselves to have a more rewarding life.
You get one life, what you do with it is up to you. Staying small because you feel shame or embarrassment is not serving you or your higher purpose in life. I will show you how to let go of those self-sabotaging thoughts!
10 most common mistakes women make when getting a divorce
MISTAKE
#1
FEELING SHAME
Feeling shame because of the divorce does not serve you. Know that divorce is super common, and rather than feeling shame we should celebrate that fact that we can have a divorce and free ourselves to have a more rewarding life.
You get one life, what you do with it is up to you. Staying small because you feel shame or embarrassment is not serving you or your higher purpose in life. I will show you how to let go of those self-sabotaging thoughts!
MISTAKE
#2
NOT SETTING BOUNDARIES
Know what it is you want, and draw a line and hold it there out of love for yourself. Boundaries are to protect yourself from being overused by other people. The problem with them are people do not know how to make them or how to hold them in place. I will teach you this valuable skill and you will learn what it means to honor yourself.
In your divorce, you want boundaries with you Ex. It may be around how you split things up, including custody and time with kids. Know what you want and know what is reasonable, and do not let yourself move the boundary.
BEING THE VICTIM
MISTAKE
#3
Sitting in a place of victimhood does not serve you. At this point you need to take responsibility for you from here on out. No matter how wrong he has done you it is your responsibility to heal and move on with your life.
I can show you how to take charge of your life, feel confident again, feel like your life has meaning and purpose. No one can steer you off course again.
Stuffing the sadness down and going out to party is not going to help you get over your ex. You actually need to feel the grief, have some really good cries, and just sit with the silence sometimes in order to process it. There are ways to help you get through it more effectively. Maybe even faster. But the grief you feel is necessary in your healing process. Be kind to yourself and allow it.
NOT GRIEVING
MISTAKE
#4
MISTAKE
#5
JUMPING IN TO A NEW RELATIONSHIP
Jumping from one relationship to the next does not give you time to grieve or to process the relationship. You will not learn all you are meant to learn from your other relationship and risk bringing all those mistakes with you into the next relationship. That being said.... it happens. Heck I did it. So I can totally relate.
But know that like will attract like. If you are not your absolute best self, you are attracting someone at the same level. You are here to up your game and get the kind of love that blows your socks off! You deserve it and can have it. I know... because now I have that!
NOT LEARNING A LESSON
Own it. You need to own your part in what went wrong. Learn where you feel you made mistakes and decide how you would want to handle those situations going into the future. This makes you a healthier person and more ready for your next relationship. Learn the lessons you were meant to learn simply so you do not repeat them.
MISTAKE
#6
MISTAKE
#7
EXPECTING LOVED ONES TO TAKE YOUR SIDE
I know it sucks for your friends and family to continue to have relationships with him. But you brought him in to the family and you wanted them to love him, you don’t get to just take that away. Take the high road here and don’t share your private stuff with the friends or family that are connected with him.
MISTAKE
#8
NOT GETTING INDEPENDENT
Relying on him for all your needs is not going to work from here on out. Get out, get on your own and create a supports structure of friends and family that you can count on.
Start stepping out of your comfort zone and do things for yourself that you never did before. This program will give you the tools and support to do this.
CREATING CONFLICT WITH THE EX
Fighting at this point is not going to serve you. Trying to be amicable is the best way to get through divorce, especially if you will have to co-parent with him.
MISTAKE
#9
MISTAKE
#10
NOT GETTING EMOTIONAL HELP
Most women will not seek coaching or counseling in order to deal with their emotions. They tend to stuff their feelings aside and find other ways to cope with the overwhelm that they are feeling. Doing this only keeps those feelings around even longer.
When we learn to manage our emotional selves, we will process and overcome the grief so that we can move on and to a better state of being. Working on your inside health makes your outside health better as well!
I've been where you are.
I GET IT.
I was so scared to get a divorce. I would lose a house, I worried about my children, I didn't know how I would provide for them. But after a few years of unhappiness and me numbing my feelings with wine everynight, I decided that the unknown was a better place than the empty life I was living.
I have learned so much about myself since I embarked on that journey through divorce. I found my strength, I found my voice, and I found that I didn't need to numb my feelings anymore because I was free to be the person I really wanted to be.
I became a better mother, a better person, I found my values and morals and how to live them. I became proud of who I am. I fumbled along the way. I made mistakes, and learned the hard way a few times.
This program is what I created to help other women who are stepping into divorce to help them overcome the obstacles I found along the way, and help them have a more thriving and fulfilling life. These 8 steps is the exact model that got me from depressed to divorce to being my BEST SELF POSSIBLE.
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THE SAY "GET OVER IT, MOVE ON"... BUT HOW?
INSIDE THIS PROGRAM YOU WILL LEARN HOW.
HERE IS WHAT YOU GET:
8 STEP-BY-STEP LESSONS TO RAISE YOUR VIBE
That covers everything from getting control of your emotions, to building your independence, and learning how to be your BEST SELF. I created custom curriculum to take you from Victim to Creator of your amazing Life!
PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP FOR MEMBERS
Join the THRIVE TRIBE of all the women in the program. Here we will further the conversation and support each other on our journey and share our huge A-ha moments!
WEEKLY GROUP COACHING CALLS
Live Group calls. During these calls we will dig deeper into where you are blocked or struggling with the current material. In the group calls you will receive a laser focussed coaching session. Each one is recorded, just in case you miss!
MY EXACT SYSTEM FOR TRANSFORMATION
I hope to shine the way for you to make your divorce just a little easier, and a lot more flourishing. Guided journaling activities and a companion guide come with each lesson.
THIS IS THE FIRST PROGRAM CREATED WITH YOU IN MIND TO OVERCOME THE OBSTACLES OF DIVORCE SO THAT YOU CAN LIVE A MORE FULFILLING LIFE. HERE IS THE WEEKLY BREAKDOWN OF THE LESSONS THAT WILL TAKE YOU TO YOUR BEST LIFE YET.
GET CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
Get ready to get control of how you react to any situation. You will become more aware of your emotions and learn what really creates them.
Week Three
PROCESS CHANGE
Get over your ex and learn from the mistakes you have made in the past so that you don't make them again in the future. You will be able to spot a keeper from a creeper in no time.
Week Five
BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE
It is time to live your best life without shame or resentment. You will identify your highest ideals and start to live by them.
Week Seven
CONNECTING TO HIGHER POWERS
It is time to feed your soul and get connected spiritually to whatever it is that serves your souls purpose. Tap your intuition and grow your purpose in life.
GAIN INDEPENDENCE
It is time to have a strong self-esteem and step into your most confident self. You will learn how to turn heads when you walk into a room. Confidence is sexy!
Week Four
STEP INTO YOUR POWER
You are a powerful being and it is time you learn how to hold that power in order to serve your highest self. Overcome the negative voices in your head that hold you back.
Week Six
PLANNING YOUR FUTURE
Confidently make decisions for yourself and set goals that get your excited. Learn to date with dignity.
Week Eight -Twenty Four
EVALUATION
Your success in this program is based on the work you put in. We will evaluate your self-reported progress and determine if you need more work in any area.
We will coach together and take all your goals to the NEXT level and beyond!
Week One
Week Two
Ready to Make Your Next Chapter the BEST?
